{"id":1326,"date":"2013-12-15T21:12:30","date_gmt":"2013-12-16T04:12:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.coachingreallyworks.com\/?p=1326"},"modified":"2016-10-25T02:57:10","modified_gmt":"2016-10-25T09:57:10","slug":"jump-or-life-will-give-you-a-shove","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/coachingreallyworks.com\/blog\/jump-or-life-will-give-you-a-shove\/","title":{"rendered":"Jump or Life Will Give You A Shove"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>What could happen if you finally took that leap to do the very thing you&#8217;ve been dreaming of doing? Or, maybe you&#8217;re like me and you just like things the way things are and you don&#8217;t want to know what could happen. Well, sort of? Actually, not at all.<\/p>\n<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 hundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"background-color: rgba(255,255,255,0);background-position: center center;background-repeat: no-repeat;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-top: 0px;border-width: 0px 0px 0px 0px;border-color:#eae9e9;border-style:solid;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_1 1_1 fusion-one-full fusion-column-first fusion-column-last fusion-column-no-min-height\" style=\"margin-top:0px;margin-bottom:0px;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\" style=\"background-position:left top;background-repeat:no-repeat;-webkit-background-size:cover;-moz-background-size:cover;-o-background-size:cover;background-size:cover;padding: 0px 0px 0px 0px;\"><div class=\"fusion-video fusion-youtube\" style=\"max-width:600px;max-height:360px;\"><div class=\"video-shortcode\"><div class=\"fluid-width-video-wrapper\" style=\"padding-top:60%;\" ><iframe title=\"YouTube video player 1\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/HhFxQlDPjaY?wmode=transparent&autoplay=0\" width=\"600\" height=\"360\" allowfullscreen allow=\"autoplay; fullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n<p>I love how this video highlights the tension that exists as we develop and learn throughout life. To tell you the truth I was just lazy, and scared of <a title=\"The Truth About How Failure Changes Everything\" href=\"https:\/\/coachingreallyworks.com\/blog\/the-truth-about-how-failure-changes-everything\/\">making a mess<\/a>, if I tried anything new. There you have it, that is what kept me in my &#8220;comfort zone&#8221;.<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>The crazy thing is that, by keeping within my comfort zone, I lost so much more. In my case I lost my job, my family and wife, my lifestyle and&#8230; well, I won&#8217;t bore you with my sob story, but you get the point.<\/p>\n<p>That was years ago, and since then I&#8217;ve come to realize that I have a new expanded comfort zone. Not only that, I&#8217;ve realized it can keep growing. Now, I don&#8217;t want to stay here, I want to reach out, deeper into that &#8220;Magic Zone&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>How did this change happen? I got pushed into it by life, but you do have to wait for life to give yo a shove.<\/p>\n<p>I believe we are all meant to keep growing, changing, and developing. I dig the way this video puts it, change is actually development.<\/p>\n<p>That is what life is all about, constant <a title=\"Coaching is for Achievers\" href=\"https:\/\/coachingreallyworks.com\/blog\/coaching-is-for-achievers\/\">growth<\/a>.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>You can choose to push the boundaries of your comfort zone or life will find a way to do it for you.<\/li>\n<li>If you have a <a title=\"Realizing Your Dream!\" href=\"https:\/\/coachingreallyworks.com\/blog\/realizing-your-dream\/\">dream <\/a>keep believing and starting doing things that move you in the direction of dream.<\/li>\n<li>Accept the learning process and don&#8217;t fight it. In fact, go out there and try new things, frequently.<\/li>\n<li>Don&#8217;t panic. Just change the name of that space out there, beyond your comfort zone, from &#8220;Panic Zone&#8221; to &#8220;Learning Zone&#8221;.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_1_1 1_1 fusion-one-full fusion-column-first fusion-column-last fusion-column-no-min-height\" style=\"margin-top:0px;margin-bottom:0px;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\" style=\"background-position:left top;background-repeat:no-repeat;-webkit-background-size:cover;-moz-background-size:cover;-o-background-size:cover;background-size:cover;padding: 0px 0px 0px 0px;\">[reminder]Where are you holding back from living life full-out? What is one thing you could do today? to push the boundaries of what you&#8217;ve come to accept as your comfort zone?[\/reminder]<div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><style type=\"text\/css\">.fusion-fullwidth.fusion-builder-row-1 { overflow:visible; }<\/style><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>What could happen if you finally took that leap to do the very thing you&#8217;ve been dreaming of doing? Or, maybe you&#8217;re like me and you just like things the way things are and you don&#8217;t want to know what could happen. Well, sort of? Actually, not at all. 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