{"id":1521,"date":"2014-03-26T00:41:54","date_gmt":"2014-03-26T07:41:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.coachingreallyworks.com\/?p=1521"},"modified":"2016-10-25T02:57:09","modified_gmt":"2016-10-25T09:57:09","slug":"15-things-not-to-believe-and-15-youll-want-to","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/coachingreallyworks.com\/blog\/15-things-not-to-believe-and-15-youll-want-to\/","title":{"rendered":"15 Things Not To Believe, and 15 You Might Want To"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>What are those ideas we call beliefs? Some time ago I thought the only context for them was religious or spiritual. I couldn&#8217;t have been more wrong. As it turns out, we are guided by them or held back by them all throughout our lives. What we choose to believe changes everything.<\/p>\n<p>I still remember how years ago, as I started out in the world of coaching, I was amazed to discover the role my beliefs had played in how my life was turning out. There are two broad categories, limiting beliefs and empowering beliefs. The challenge is in learning to recognize them.<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>Believe you are resourceful.\u00a0<a rel=\"nofollow\" href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/home\/?status=Believe you are resourceful. http:\/\/wp.me\/p1tXmj-ox\" target=\"_blank\"><div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 hundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"background-color: rgba(255,255,255,0);background-position: center center;background-repeat: no-repeat;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-top: 0px;border-width: 0px 0px 0px 0px;border-color:#eae9e9;border-style:solid;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_1 1_1 fusion-one-full fusion-column-first fusion-column-last fusion-column-no-min-height\" style=\"margin-top:0px;margin-bottom:0px;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\" style=\"background-position:left top;background-repeat:no-repeat;-webkit-background-size:cover;-moz-background-size:cover;-o-background-size:cover;background-size:cover;padding: 0px 0px 0px 0px;\">[Tweet this!]<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Believe happiness is and inside job to be chosen now. <a rel=\"nofollow\" href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/home\/?status=Believe happiness is and inside job to be chosen now. http:\/\/wp.me\/p1tXmj-ox\" target=\"_blank\">[Tweet this!]<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Believe desire can be a healthy part of life. <a rel=\"nofollow\" href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/home\/?status=Believe desire can be a healthy part of life. http:\/\/wp.me\/p1tXmj-ox\" target=\"_blank\">[Tweet this!]<\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3>\u00a0You can choose to believe:<\/h3>\n<ol>\n<li>you can&#8217;t.<\/li>\n<li>you have no choice what to believe.<\/li>\n<li>you need to accept the values of others above your own.<\/li>\n<li>it must be true because you believe it.<\/li>\n<li>some things are impossible.<\/li>\n<li>what you&#8217;ve been told.<\/li>\n<li>the world is a hostile place.<\/li>\n<li>you have no choice.<\/li>\n<li><a title=\"Habits \u2026 Beliefs \u2026 and Eagles\" href=\"https:\/\/coachingreallyworks.com\/blog\/our-advantage-over-an-eagle\/\">you never change<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li>your life will always be the same.<\/li>\n<li>others can have success, but it&#8217;s not for you.<\/li>\n<li>desire is shameful.<\/li>\n<li>if you could just get or do that one thing, you&#8217;d be happy.<\/li>\n<li>you&#8217;re stuck.<\/li>\n<li>there are <a title=\"What limits are you accepting?\" href=\"https:\/\/coachingreallyworks.com\/blog\/what-limits-are-you-accepting\/\">limits<\/a> and you need to accept them.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<h3>Or choose to:<\/h3>\n<ol>\n<li>Believe you can.<\/li>\n<li>Believe\u00a0it&#8217;s your choice what you believe.<\/li>\n<li>Believe\u00a0your unique values count.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Believe\u00a0belief is simply something you&#8217;ve been told over and over again.<\/strong><\/li>\n<li>Believe\u00a0anything is possible.<\/li>\n<li>Believe\u00a0it&#8217;s okay to <a title=\"3 Easy Coaching Tips You Can Use to Help Anyone\" href=\"https:\/\/coachingreallyworks.com\/blog\/3-easy-coaching-tips-you-can-use-to-help-anyone\/\">question things<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li>Believe\u00a0the world can be what you need and desire.<\/li>\n<li>Believe\u00a0you have a <a title=\"What choice do I have?\" href=\"https:\/\/coachingreallyworks.com\/blog\/what-choice-do-i-have\/\">choice<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li>Believe\u00a0you change.<\/li>\n<li>Believe\u00a0your life can change.<\/li>\n<li>Believe\u00a0success is for you.<\/li>\n<li><a title=\"6 Steps You Can Use to Turn Your Desire into Reality\" href=\"https:\/\/coachingreallyworks.com\/blog\/6-steps-you-can-use-to-turn-your-desire-into-reality\/\">Believe\u00a0desire can be a healthy part of life<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li>Believe\u00a0happiness is an inside job to be chosen now.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Believe\u00a0you are resourceful.<\/strong><\/li>\n<li>Believe\u00a0you are only limited by what you believe.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>You will believe something. Make your choice!<\/p>\n[reminder]What limiting beliefs are you accepting in your life? How have your beliefs changed over time?[\/reminder]<div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><style type=\"text\/css\">.fusion-fullwidth.fusion-builder-row-1 { overflow:visible; }<\/style><\/div><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>What are those ideas we call beliefs? Some time ago I thought the only context for them was religious or spiritual. I couldn&#8217;t have been more wrong. As it turns out, we are guided by them or held back by them all throughout our lives. What we choose to believe changes everything. 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