{"id":2795,"date":"2015-07-17T03:52:24","date_gmt":"2015-07-17T11:52:24","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.coachingreallyworks.com\/?p=2795"},"modified":"2016-10-25T02:56:36","modified_gmt":"2016-10-25T09:56:36","slug":"3-surprisingly-simple-steps-to-start-building-better-habits-today","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/coachingreallyworks.com\/blog\/3-surprisingly-simple-steps-to-start-building-better-habits-today\/","title":{"rendered":"3 Surprisingly Simple Steps To Start Building Better Habits Today"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Setting up a personal budget and then completely ignoring the rest of the month has been a bad habit of mine. It has resulted in some avoidable financial tightness.<\/p>\n<p>I came across an effective\u00a0tool just in time to turn this bad habit\u00a0around this month. It&#8217;s been a few weeks now and I&#8217;m doing pretty good with a\u00a0new habit of tracking my expenses daily.<\/p>\n<h2>In this Video:<\/h2>\n<p>00:30 &#8211; Resource from\u00a0Coaching Tools<br \/>\n01:16 &#8211; Three Phase Process For Choosing\u00a0Habits<br \/>\n01:46 &#8211; Does it Make You Cry?<br \/>\n02:10 &#8211; Brainstorm Phase<br \/>\n02:33 &#8211; Commit Incrementally<br \/>\n04:06 &#8211; Quote from Charles Reade<br \/>\n04:23 &#8211; Affirmation to Help You Move Forward<\/p>\n<h2>Listen To The Audio:<\/h2>\n<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 hundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"background-color: rgba(255,255,255,0);background-position: center center;background-repeat: no-repeat;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-top: 0px;border-width: 0px 0px 0px 0px;border-color:#eae9e9;border-style:solid;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_1 1_1 fusion-one-full fusion-column-first fusion-column-last fusion-column-no-min-height\" style=\"margin-top:0px;margin-bottom:0px;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\" style=\"background-position:left top;background-repeat:no-repeat;-webkit-background-size:cover;-moz-background-size:cover;-o-background-size:cover;background-size:cover;padding: 0px 0px 0px 0px;\">[powerpress]\n<h2>Watch The Video:<\/h2>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<div class=\"fusion-video fusion-youtube\" style=\"max-width:600px;max-height:360px;\"><div class=\"video-shortcode\"><div class=\"fluid-width-video-wrapper\" style=\"padding-top:60%;\" ><iframe title=\"YouTube video player 1\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/chRuJXLwbPE?wmode=transparent&autoplay=0\" width=\"600\" height=\"360\" allowfullscreen allow=\"autoplay; fullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n<h2>Transcription:<\/h2>\n<p>Hi there! I am Abe Stone and this is Coaching Really Works.com. Welcome, and I hope that you enjoy this special short video that I made just for you.<\/p>\n<p>I want to give you something, I want to give you a coaching tool that you can use to form the habits that you need to give you the structure to move ahead\u00a0and\u00a0reach for your goal. Us it to help you find solutions to those things in your life that you need to grow in and that you need to move\u00a0ahead in.<\/p>\n<p>This is something that I found when I was on the <a title=\"See the Article here\" href=\"http:\/\/coachfederation.org\/blog\/index.php\/4517\/\" target=\"_blank\">International Coaching Federation blog<\/a>. It is an amazing post from the author of the website <a href=\"https:\/\/www.e-junkie.com\/ecom\/gb.php?cl=49405&amp;c=ib&amp;aff=298030\" target=\"ejejcsingle\">The Coaching Tools Company.com.<\/a>\u00a0I will give you a link below to help you see some of the amazing tools that they provide.<\/p>\n<p>The thing is, a couple of weeks ago, I realized that I had some bad habits, that I was not doing very well in. I was floundering. I was\u00a0procrastinating. I was putting off certain things in my behavior.<\/p>\n<p>I was putting off certain things that I needed to do, to start my day and it just wasn&#8217;t going well and I felt like a failure. My energy is just going wrong.<\/p>\n<p>I came across this idea. It was so wonderful, I put it into practice right away. I want to share the insight with you, so that you can use it. There are three steps.<\/p>\n<h3>1. Find context<\/h3>\n<p>Now, finding context, I think the best way to describe that is, &#8220;<a title=\"Make Your Goals Emotionally Powerful, SMART Goals That Rock &#091;Inforgraphic&#093;\" href=\"https:\/\/coachingreallyworks.com\/blog\/make-emotionally-strong-smart-goals-rock\/\" target=\"_blank\">Your &#8216;why&#8217; should make you cry.<\/a>&#8221;<\/p>\n[shareable cite=&#8221;Abe Stone&#8221;]Your why should make you cry and you&#8217;ll have great context for building new habits.[\/shareable]\n<p>The reason to do something has to be\u00a0motivating for you. You can&#8217;t just be, &#8220;Oh, I want this new habit.&#8221; No, why do you want it?<\/p>\n<p>How do we get context?<\/p>\n<p>One of the key questions that you need to\u00a0ask yourself is:<\/p>\n[shareable]What are my\u00a0top three priorities right now?[\/shareable]\n<p>Just answer that and write it down.<\/p>\n<p>Next, ask yourself:<\/p>\n[shareable]What are my three main stressors?[\/shareable]\n<p>I did this and the answers to both of these questions were pretty obvious. They were in the forefront of my mind. It was\u00a0easy to get those down.<\/p>\n<h3>2. Brainstorm<\/h3>\n<p>Now, the next step that you would want to do is to want to brainstorm.<\/p>\n<p>Now, this is a very important part of the process. You know <a title=\"How To Be Free From Worry Now!\" href=\"https:\/\/coachingreallyworks.com\/blog\/how-to-be-free-from-worry-now\/\">the stressors<\/a>, you know what your priorities are, and what you want to grow in?<\/p>\n<p>Find five or more habits that you can start to implement today that will help to meet those needs, that will help alleviate the stress, that will help you move you forward in those areas that will be priority in your life.<\/p>\n<p>Just go ahead and write them\u00a0down. You can even write ten\u00a0ideas now, just let it all go and put together a very clear list.<\/p>\n<p>They have to<a title=\"Make Your Goals Emotionally Powerful, SMART Goals That Rock &#091;Inforgraphic&#093;\" href=\"https:\/\/coachingreallyworks.com\/blog\/make-emotionally-strong-smart-goals-rock\/\"> be specific so you can measure,\u00a0&#8220;Did I do this?<\/a>&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Now, you&#8217;re ready for the third step.<\/p>\n<h3>3. Commit<\/h3>\n<p>The third part is to commit.<\/p>\n<p>Now, commitment is very important because you need to <a title=\"Persist Just Beyond the Point You\u2019d Have Given Up\" href=\"https:\/\/coachingreallyworks.com\/blog\/persist-just-beyond-the-point-youd-have-given-up\/\">commit to something that you are going to do<\/a>. It must be something that will move you but it needs to be achievable and not something that is going to discourage you.<\/p>\n<p>I had\u00a0written the person who has offered this post and have shared this idea. It is very interesting what she said when I asked, &#8220;Why did you\u00a0set the first goal is to start tomorrow, next is to start the week, and the third goal is to start in a month? Isn&#8217;t it something that we want to\u00a0start\u00a0right away?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Then\u00a0<a title=\"See comments here\" href=\"http:\/\/coachfederation.org\/blog\/index.php\/4517\/\" target=\"_blank\">she explained<\/a>:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Yeah you could do that, if you are ready for it, just go for it but if not just get one with in. Start tomorrow on one big win, then start next week on the next win\u00a0and then start next month on\u00a0the next win.&#8221;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Very often there are a lot of things that are going on in our lives that are keeping us busy, so this idea helps us to use this tool to introduce this habit slowly in a way that they will stick.<\/p>\n<p>So pick the one that you are going to start tomorrow, write it down, exactly what it is that you are going to do. Make sure that it is measurable\u00a0and that you can start tomorrow.<\/p>\n<p>Now,\u00a0write down the one that you are going to start next week and then write down the one that you are going to start next month.<\/p>\n<p>Be sure to pick three.\u00a0Be very specific and commit to them.<\/p>\n<p>There you have it, an amazing coaching tool that you can use to move forward and help you establish new habits that are really gonna give you\u00a0the gains that you want in life today.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p>For now I am going to leave you with a quote:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<h3>Sow and act and you reap a habit. Sow a habit and you reap a character. Sow a character and you reap a destiny.&#8221;<\/h3>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\">\u00a0Charles Reade<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>I love\u00a0that. It is all about that, sowing and watching you life grow into that amazing destiny.<\/p>\n<p>Okay, now for the affirmation. 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