{"id":3166,"date":"2016-01-07T07:43:07","date_gmt":"2016-01-07T15:43:07","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.coachingreallyworks.com\/?p=3166"},"modified":"2016-10-25T02:56:32","modified_gmt":"2016-10-25T09:56:32","slug":"11-proven-happiness-keys-how-to-be-happy-now","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/coachingreallyworks.com\/blog\/11-proven-happiness-keys-how-to-be-happy-now\/","title":{"rendered":"11 Proven Happiness Keys, How to Be Happy Now (infographic)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Have you found that you have a happiness button? I&#8217;d say there is no on\/off switch, but these things come pretty close to being happiness on demand switches.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m sure you find some things work better than others. Tell me what you think about number four.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"line-height: 1.5;\">In this Video:<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>00:35 &#8211; The Problem with Focusing on a Goal<br \/>\n01:10 &#8211; Plan To, but Don&#8217;t, Do This<br \/>\n01:40 &#8211; My Bonus Tip You Can Use Now<br \/>\n02:00 &#8211; Quote from &#8211; Omar Khayyam<br \/>\n02:20 &#8211; Affirmation\u00a0for Being Happy Now<\/p>\n<h2>Listen To The Audio:<\/h2>\n<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 hundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"background-color: rgba(255,255,255,0);background-position: center center;background-repeat: no-repeat;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-top: 0px;border-width: 0px 0px 0px 0px;border-color:#eae9e9;border-style:solid;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_1 1_1 fusion-one-full fusion-column-first fusion-column-last fusion-column-no-min-height\" style=\"margin-top:0px;margin-bottom:0px;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\" style=\"background-position:left top;background-repeat:no-repeat;-webkit-background-size:cover;-moz-background-size:cover;-o-background-size:cover;background-size:cover;padding: 0px 0px 0px 0px;\">[powerpress]\n<h2>Watch The Video<\/h2>\n<p><iframe width=\"560\" height=\"315\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/wk7Zrc3tSYA?rel=0&amp;showinfo=0\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><br \/>\n<!--more--><br \/>\nTranscription:<\/p>\n<p>I decided to try something new with this first video of the New Year and I moved out of the studio and into my office, this is where I work.<\/p>\n<p>So you can see, here is my favorite mug that the kids sent me for Father&#8217;s Day and yeah, this is my setup, some of my favorite books, my post-its and reminders, my trusty computer.<\/p>\n<h3>The Problem with Focusing on a Goal<\/h3>\n<p>So I want to give you something special at the beginning of the year and it&#8217;s something that we all want more of and we all need more of in our lives, and that is happiness.<\/p>\n[shareable cite=&#8221;Abe Stone&#8221;]Practice happiness now. Goal focused people tend to defer happiness until the moment the goal is completed.[\/shareable]\n<p>It really is one thing that makes life so much easier is when we\u2019re happy, when we are going forward, reaching towards our goals, especially when we are very goal focused. Because when you are<a href=\"https:\/\/coachingreallyworks.com\/blog\/are-you-making-this-mistake-pursuing-goals\/\"> goal focused, you tend to defer happiness until the moment the goal is completed.<\/a><\/p>\n[offer-box href=&#8221;http:\/\/sostartover.com&#8221; linktext=&#8221;Reminder: Have you checked out my book? I just released \u201cSo? Start Over!: Experience Clarity, Do What Matters, Live Your Dream\u201d which includes worksheets, cheatsheets, and bonus material. Click here to check it out!&#8221; securecheckout=&#8221;true&#8221; footnote=&#8221;Get It on Amazon&#8221;]\n<p>Well these are ways scientifically proven that you can be happy now. There are\u00a0actually ten ways that are scientifically proven and I have an <a href=\"https:\/\/coachingreallyworks.com\/blog\/how-to-be-free-from-the-weakening-effects-of-stress-now\/\">eleventh one that is my personal experience which I&#8217;d like to give you<\/a>. And here they are, I have them on my share notes.<\/p>\n<h3>11 Ways to Be Happy Now (10 Proven by Science)<\/h3>\n<p>So the first one is,<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>Take time to <strong>meditate<\/strong>. <a href=\"https:\/\/coachingreallyworks.com\/blog\/how-to-start-meditating-using-the-release-technique\/\">Meditation rewires your brain<\/a> and connects you to that\u00a0happiness.<\/li>\n<li>Practice <strong>smiling<\/strong>.<\/li>\n<li>We have another one and that is <strong>exercise<\/strong>. Exercise at least <em>7 minutes every day<\/em>, something to <a href=\"https:\/\/coachingreallyworks.com\/blog\/how-exercise-makes-you-happier-and-smarter\/\">get your heart pumping<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li>This one&#8217;s a funny one, <strong>plan a trip<\/strong> but don&#8217;t take it. They say there&#8217;s so much <em>joy in getting excited about preparing a trip<\/em>. Sometimes the trip itself\u00a0can be a little bit disappointing but that planning is awesome.<\/li>\n<li>All right now the next one is spend <strong>time with your family and friends<\/strong>.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Move closer to work<\/strong>. Who knew? By this, you have less commute to get you down.<\/li>\n<li>Another one is<a href=\"https:\/\/coachingreallyworks.com\/blog\/4-self-care-areas-to-nurture-and-prevent-burnout\/\"> <strong>go outside<\/strong><\/a>, especially when the <em>temperature is around 13.9 \u00b0C<\/em>. How about that?<\/li>\n<li>Of course we have <strong>sleep more<\/strong>.<\/li>\n<li>We have <a href=\"https:\/\/coachingreallyworks.com\/blog\/what-moves-you-to-give-a-hoot\/\">take time to <strong>help others<\/strong><\/a>, at least a couple hours a week.<\/li>\n<li>And <a href=\"https:\/\/coachingreallyworks.com\/blog\/experience-being-grateful-today\/\">last but not least on this list is <strong>gratitude<\/strong><\/a>.<\/li>\n<li><strong>BONUS TIP:<\/strong> Now, the eleventh one which I would like to throw in there, which I have found has really changed things for me is learn to <strong>become present<\/strong> in the moment. <em>Meditation<\/em> is a real key way of doing that; sometimes just simple <em>gratitude<\/em> for the things that you are experiencing, for the breath that you have, for the food that you have eaten that day, just to be able to be alive.\u00a0I did this the other day and a smile spread across my face, I just couldn&#8217;t help it. (<em>Read <a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/gp\/product\/B002361MLA\/?tag=coachingreall-20\" target=\"_blank\">The Power of Now<\/a><\/em>)<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<div id=\"attachment_3167\" style=\"width: 770px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/coachingreallyworks.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/scientific-ways-to-be-happy.jpg\"><img aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-3167\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-large wp-image-3167\" src=\"https:\/\/coachingreallyworks.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/scientific-ways-to-be-happy-977x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Source FundersandFounders.com\" width=\"760\" height=\"797\" srcset=\"https:\/\/coachingreallyworks.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/scientific-ways-to-be-happy-82x86.jpg 82w, https:\/\/coachingreallyworks.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/scientific-ways-to-be-happy-286x300.jpg 286w, https:\/\/coachingreallyworks.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/scientific-ways-to-be-happy-382x400.jpg 382w, https:\/\/coachingreallyworks.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/scientific-ways-to-be-happy-600x629.jpg 600w, https:\/\/coachingreallyworks.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/scientific-ways-to-be-happy-760x797.jpg 760w, https:\/\/coachingreallyworks.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/scientific-ways-to-be-happy-977x1024.jpg 977w, https:\/\/coachingreallyworks.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/scientific-ways-to-be-happy.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 760px) 100vw, 760px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-3167\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Inforgraphic designed by\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/notes.fundersandfounders.com\/post\/60187876524\/10-scientific-ways-to-be-happy\">FundersandFounders.com<\/a>\u00a0Source <a href=\"https:\/\/blog.bufferapp.com\/10-scientifically-proven-ways-to-make-yourself-happier\">Buffer Productivity Blog<\/a><\/p><\/div>\n<p>All right, that&#8217;s it for this short video.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p>And here&#8217;s your quote for today,<\/p>\n[shareable cite=&#8221;Omar Khayyam&#8221;]Be happy for this moment, this moment is your life.[\/shareable]\n<p>Okay. 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