{"id":3919,"date":"2016-12-01T20:25:27","date_gmt":"2016-12-02T04:25:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.coachingreallyworks.com\/blog\/?p=3919"},"modified":"2016-12-01T20:25:53","modified_gmt":"2016-12-02T04:25:53","slug":"5-ways-to-show-your-love-this-year","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/coachingreallyworks.com\/blog\/5-ways-to-show-your-love-this-year\/","title":{"rendered":"5 Ways to Show Your Love This Year, So They’ll Feel It"},"content":{"rendered":"

As much as I love the fun, festivities, warmth, and smiles at Christmas, it’s not always a pleasure\u00a0for everyone. One of my expat friends in China found it to be a bothersome season of parties and events he doesn’t enjoy.<\/p>\n

Our past\u00a0shapes the way we feel about things like this. A rough childhood experience\u00a0may ruin something as wonderful and Christmas for some.<\/p>\n

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If you think about it, so much FOCUS\u00a0on gift-giving may just as well be leaving people, like my friend, disappointed.<\/p>\n

I’ve learned the hard way that the things that are meaningful to one of us can be completely the opposite to another, because the way each\u00a0person feels or EXPERIENCES LOVE\u00a0is DIFFERENT.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Maybe if we took the time to UNDERSTAND\u00a0how the ones we care about\u00a0feels love, we might be able to give them just the thing that\u00a0will sweep them off their feet. Have you heard of The Five Love Languages<\/a>?<\/p>\n

\"the5lovelanguages\"<\/a><\/p>\n

Pay attention how\u00a0ones closest to you react to the following five most common ways people perceive love\u00a0and you may be able to find the perfect gift to GIVE\u00a0them over the holiday season.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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  1. Gifts –<\/strong> We all know this one too well. Gifts seems like a universal language of love but some of us will feel it more than others.<\/li>\n
  2. Quality Time –<\/strong> It’ll take more than sitting side by side watching TV to make this one work. Talk, play a game, enjoy a meal or a cup of tea.<\/li>\n
  3. Service –<\/strong> Washing dishes, mowing the lawn, ironing clothes, doing the shopping or washing the car can be meaningful in to him or her.<\/li>\n
  4. Affirmation –<\/strong> We may feel the ones we care about know we love them, but some of us need it put into words. “I love you” is great, now be more specific in your words of love and appreciation.<\/li>\n
  5. Physical Affection –<\/strong> Most will feel love from a kiss, a hug or a pat on the back, but for some of us that loving touch is our life line.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    [shareable cite=”Abe Stone”]Everywhere I go, I find and give love. Life is joyous. #affirmation[\/shareable]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

    As much as I love the fun, festivities, warmth, and smiles at Christmas, it’s not always a pleasure\u00a0for everyone. One of my expat friends in China found it to be a bothersome season of parties and events he doesn’t enjoy. Our past\u00a0shapes the way we feel about things like this. A rough childhood experience\u00a0may ruin […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":3921,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[46,70],"tags":[81,93,110,21,152,338],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/coachingreallyworks.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3919"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/coachingreallyworks.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/coachingreallyworks.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/coachingreallyworks.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/coachingreallyworks.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3919"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/coachingreallyworks.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3919\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3924,"href":"https:\/\/coachingreallyworks.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3919\/revisions\/3924"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/coachingreallyworks.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3921"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/coachingreallyworks.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3919"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/coachingreallyworks.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3919"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/coachingreallyworks.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3919"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}