{"id":4079,"date":"2017-04-20T10:57:03","date_gmt":"2017-04-20T17:57:03","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.coachingreallyworks.com\/blog\/?p=4079"},"modified":"2017-04-21T11:16:28","modified_gmt":"2017-04-21T18:16:28","slug":"screw-what-you-want-go-for-bliss","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/coachingreallyworks.com\/blog\/screw-what-you-want-go-for-bliss\/","title":{"rendered":"Screw What You Want, Go for Bliss"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I don\u2019t ever want to hear another success or personal development quote again. When I get FRUSTRATED\u00a0by seeing so many cliche quotes and sayings out there, I FEEL\u00a0that way.<\/p>\n<p>If I was to follow them all, I\u2019d never DO\u00a0anything.<\/p>\n<p>But then, all you need is just the right one to CONNECT\u00a0to exactly\u00a0the results you\u2019re looking for.<\/p>\n<p>If there is one I\u2019d have to pick, it would be:<\/p>\n<p>[shareable cite=&#8221;George Addair&#8221;]&#8217;Everything you&#8217;ve ever wanted is on the OTHER SIDE\u00a0of fear.'[\/shareable]<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/coachingreallyworks.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/Everything-youve-ever-wanted-is-on-the-other-side-of-fear..jpg\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-4080\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-4080\" src=\"https:\/\/coachingreallyworks.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/Everything-youve-ever-wanted-is-on-the-other-side-of-fear.-300x300.jpg\" alt=\"Everything you've ever wanted is on the other side of fear.\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/coachingreallyworks.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/Everything-youve-ever-wanted-is-on-the-other-side-of-fear.-35x35.jpg 35w, https:\/\/coachingreallyworks.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/Everything-youve-ever-wanted-is-on-the-other-side-of-fear.-82x82.jpg 82w, https:\/\/coachingreallyworks.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/Everything-youve-ever-wanted-is-on-the-other-side-of-fear.-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/coachingreallyworks.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/Everything-youve-ever-wanted-is-on-the-other-side-of-fear.-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/coachingreallyworks.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/Everything-youve-ever-wanted-is-on-the-other-side-of-fear.-400x400.jpg 400w, https:\/\/coachingreallyworks.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/Everything-youve-ever-wanted-is-on-the-other-side-of-fear.-600x600.jpg 600w, https:\/\/coachingreallyworks.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/Everything-youve-ever-wanted-is-on-the-other-side-of-fear.-760x760.jpg 760w, https:\/\/coachingreallyworks.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/Everything-youve-ever-wanted-is-on-the-other-side-of-fear.-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/coachingreallyworks.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/Everything-youve-ever-wanted-is-on-the-other-side-of-fear..jpg 800w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Bet you anything, thing\u00a0tripping you up is the word \u201cWANT.\u201d <em>\u201cI\u2019m easy going. I don\u2019t want anything,\u201d would just be an excuse for not FACING\u00a0your fears.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>It is like that sometimes. Remember <a href=\"https:\/\/coachingreallyworks.com\/blog\/3-keys-to-regretting-fewer-missed-opportunities-by-overcoming-fear-sooner\/\">my story about rollercoasters<\/a>? I didn&#8217;t WANT TO FEEL the fear of\u00a0dropping and rolling.<\/p>\n<p>What most people don&#8217;t realize is that<strong> there is an amazing reward when\u00a0overcoming most fears. What we think we want is rarely what we DEEPLY DESIRE.<\/strong>\u00a0It&#8217;s just\u00a0beyond your fears.<\/p>\n<p>[shareable cite=&#8221;Abe Stone&#8221;]What we think we want is rarely what we deeply desire. Move beyond your fears.[\/shareable]<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/coachingreallyworks.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/What-we-think-we-want-is-rarely-what-we-deeply-desire.-Lets-conquer-our-fears..jpg\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-4083\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-4083\" src=\"https:\/\/coachingreallyworks.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/What-we-think-we-want-is-rarely-what-we-deeply-desire.-Lets-conquer-our-fears.-300x300.jpg\" alt=\"What we think we want is rarely what we deeply desire. Let's conquer our fears.\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/coachingreallyworks.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/What-we-think-we-want-is-rarely-what-we-deeply-desire.-Lets-conquer-our-fears.-35x35.jpg 35w, https:\/\/coachingreallyworks.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/What-we-think-we-want-is-rarely-what-we-deeply-desire.-Lets-conquer-our-fears.-82x82.jpg 82w, https:\/\/coachingreallyworks.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/What-we-think-we-want-is-rarely-what-we-deeply-desire.-Lets-conquer-our-fears.-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/coachingreallyworks.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/What-we-think-we-want-is-rarely-what-we-deeply-desire.-Lets-conquer-our-fears.-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/coachingreallyworks.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/What-we-think-we-want-is-rarely-what-we-deeply-desire.-Lets-conquer-our-fears.-400x400.jpg 400w, https:\/\/coachingreallyworks.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/What-we-think-we-want-is-rarely-what-we-deeply-desire.-Lets-conquer-our-fears.-600x600.jpg 600w, https:\/\/coachingreallyworks.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/What-we-think-we-want-is-rarely-what-we-deeply-desire.-Lets-conquer-our-fears.-760x760.jpg 760w, https:\/\/coachingreallyworks.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/What-we-think-we-want-is-rarely-what-we-deeply-desire.-Lets-conquer-our-fears.-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/coachingreallyworks.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/What-we-think-we-want-is-rarely-what-we-deeply-desire.-Lets-conquer-our-fears..jpg 800w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s hard to describe until you\u2019ve DONE\u00a0it, but the bliss of swimming effortlessly in the water, the happiness of having and raising children, the rush of riding a roller coaster, the accelerated heart rate at the moment of a first kiss are worth any fear or apprehension.<\/p>\n<p>You may or may not have been\u00a0interested in any of these things, but if you&#8217;re like most of, I know you\u2019ve ENJOYED the\u00a0EFFECT\u00a0or you will.<\/p>\n<h3>Are you hesitating? So? Step out anyway.<\/h3>\n<p>Do that thing you\u2019ve wanted to do or <strong>take up that CHALLENGE\u00a0you say you don\u2019t want<\/strong>. You\u2019ll love <strong>connecting to the BLISS\u00a0you\u2019ve been missing.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>[reminder]See you on the other side of fear. I&#8217;d love to hear YOUR\u00a0story.[\/reminder]<\/p>\n<p>I love Will Smith&#8217;s story.<\/p>\n<p>[youtube id=&#8221;yvkawQkkfj8&#8243;]<\/p>\n<p>[shareable]I free myself from all destructive fears and doubts.\u00a0#affirmation[\/shareable]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I don\u2019t ever want to hear another success or personal development quote again. When I get FRUSTRATED\u00a0by seeing so many cliche quotes and sayings out there, I FEEL\u00a0that way. If I was to follow them all, I\u2019d never DO\u00a0anything. But then, all you need is just the right one to CONNECT\u00a0to exactly\u00a0the results you\u2019re looking [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":4081,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[51,46],"tags":[81,93,56,141,159,27,53,98,345,64,25,67,41,140,24,14,47,55],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/coachingreallyworks.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4079"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/coachingreallyworks.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/coachingreallyworks.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/coachingreallyworks.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/coachingreallyworks.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4079"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/coachingreallyworks.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4079\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4086,"href":"https:\/\/coachingreallyworks.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4079\/revisions\/4086"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/coachingreallyworks.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/4081"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/coachingreallyworks.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4079"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/coachingreallyworks.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4079"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/coachingreallyworks.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4079"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}