Why You Can’t Make It to… Your Dream

Did he say, “YOU CAN’T do that. You won’t make any money that way”? Maybe she laughed when you told her how much you wanted to try something out.

Stop and consider the fact that you are on a different PATH than they are.

Sure, it may not work, if they did it… but you are not them.

[shareable cite=”Abe Stone”]Sure, it may not work, if they did it… but you are not them.[/shareable]

Heck, they may have tried and it didn’t work.

There’s a story in which business professors Gary Hamel and C. K. Parahalad wrote about a group monkeys that had been put through an experiment.

They placed the monkeys in a room with a pole, and at the top of the pole there was bunch of bananas. Every time one of the monkeys climbed up, they sprayed it with cold water just before it reached the bananas.

Each one tried several times until they all GAVE UP.

The person saying it cannot be done should not interrupt the person doing it. Chinese Proverb

They then replaced one of the monkeys with a monkey which had not been sprayed with water. As it climbed the pole, the other monkey, who knew about the water, pulled it down.

The new monkey eventually gave up.

Then they switched another new monkey with another one which had been sprayed. The same thing happened, but the new monkey who had come just before it joined in pulling this second monkey down.

They eventually exchanged all of the monkeys, until none of the original monkeys which had been showered with water were left in the room.

Though they DIDN’T KNOW WHY, all the monkeys would still pull down any NEW monkey which tried to go for the bananas.

Just think about it, WHO is stopping you? Remember, they may have their story but now it’s time to live your story.

Stop listening to the naysayers.

Expect to have to PERSIST past obstacles.

Go bananas! 😉

[shareable cite=”Chinese Proverb”]The person saying it cannot be done should not interrupt the person doing it. #quote[/shareable]
[shareable]I succeed because I meet resistance with persistence #affirmation[/shareable]

5 Easy Steps to Gain Back Your Confidence, and Belief

I hear you saying, “But I can’t have that (fill in the blank), because (fill in the excuse).” How about “I’m too _____ to ever be good at _____.”

Some of these beliefs about yourself are a little less logical but just as limiting. “He never listens to me.” “She’s not will to do this or that for me.” Your story could be drastically changed with some simple challenging questions.

In this Video:

00:25 – Limits You May Have Set and Believe
00:46 – The Sources of Learned Limitations
01:20 – Byron Katie’s Formula Passed Down to Me
01:35 – Identify It and Ask This Question
01:54 – The Challenge
02:15 – Connecting to the Effect
02:28 – A Peek at Possibility
02:40 – Ready to Believe Your Choice
03:04 – Quote from – Les Brown
03:26 – Affirmation to Move You Forward

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7 Easy Tips that Will Make You More Productive Now (Infographic)

Sometimes you’re in the zone and your work just seems to flow with ease, you are a productive rock star. But what about those days you just don’t feel it but you want to have get some important things done?

You feel terrible when you get to the end of those days and you frittered the day away in a less than productive mode. We all have those days, right?

In this Video:

00:52 – Has Multitasking Made Your Life Any Easier?
01:15 – Get Someone to Work on Your To-Do List While You Sleep
01:43 – Set the Mood with Some Vibes
02:07 – Clutter Matters
02:33 – Batch Your Tasks So You Don’t Tire Yourself Out Needlessly
03:06 – How to Change Gears So You Can Give your Next Task All You Can
03:45 – The Magic of Maintaining Your Machine
04:28 – Quote from – Paul J. Meyer
04:53 – Affirmation to Move You Forward

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How to Dominate Your Emotions and Choose the Life You Want

How would you feel getting being paged over the loudspeakers in a public area, such as a mall or airport, to come to the information desk? Many people say their first reaction is that something bad must have happened.

That reaction is learned from experience and what we were told in life, it has become automatic. The emotions take over and until something happens to contradict it, most people would operate with that assumption and get a little stressed out, until it was resolved.

Emotions have important roles, such as warning us of danger but it’s dangerous to simply react. See what you can do about this.

In this Video:

00:30 – When Emotions Hit
01:00 – The Magic Of Words
01:39 – Do GPS’ Say, “Hey, You Messed Up”
02:30 – The Key That Makes This Work
03:11 – Quote from – W. Clement Stone
03:26 – Affirmation to Move You Forward

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9 Things Not to Say to Your Child (or Yourself)

Have you made up your mind about what your parent’s were right about and what they were wrong about? I know there are things I definitely want to do better with my children than my parents did with me.

Only, it’s not always so black and white. I respect my parents for the way they raised our family. They did an awesome job with what they knew. Sometimes it helps to learn from others as well. I don’t think I’ve got it all figured out but I feel the list below is a good reference for me and my kids.

In this Video:

00:40 – Did Your Parents Influence You This Way?
01:22 – You May Have Been Label and Held Back Like This
01:45 – Don’t Get Stuck Trying to Keep Up With Others
02:10 – This One Can’t Be Right
03:17 – We Believe These Things Even If They Are Wrong
03:45 – Many Adults Are Stuck Because Of This Inability
04:20 – Money Beliefs You Don’t Want To Have
05:15 – Should We Be People Pleasers?
06:05 – What To Say Instead Of “Why?”
07:45 – A Shift In Energy and Outlook
07:28 – Quote from – Bob Keeshan
07:53 – Affirmation to Move You Forward

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100 People Who Prove It’s Not Too Late For You To Start Something New [Infographic]

Do you ever get that feeling sometimes that you missed an opportunity? Chances are, you’re probably over 30 and you feel like maybe you could have done something different with your life, or you really wanted to do something but you never got a chance to start.

Maybe you’re over 40 and you say “Oh, there’s no point in starting anything now, there’s no point in doing something new now.”

In this Video:

00:15 – Which One Best Describes You?
00:52 – Chinese Proverb
01:12 – Quote from – F. Scott Fitzgerald
01:30 – Affirmation to Help You Move Forward

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3 Keys to Regretting Fewer Missed Opportunities (by Overcoming Fear Sooner)

It was my teenage daughter’s birthday, and we suggested she could have friends over for a part if she liked. “No, I’m okay,” was her quick reply. This was a couple of years ago.

Overcoming fear of calling people up on the phone wasn’t something she was gonna tackle just then. She new we wanted her to be the one to call around and organize it, and she didn’t feel comfortable doing that.

So, she missed an opportunity for a party I’m pretty sure she would have loved. She’s come a long way and recently planned a birthday movie outing with her friends.

In this Video:

00:20 – The Learned Beliefs That Keep You Back
01:45 – Where My Fear Was Rooted and That Magic Post-It
03:15 – Time Doesn’t Heal Everything
05:25 – And That’s How Your Comfort Zone Grows
06:05 – Your Limits are Blown Away Here
06:38 – 1. Recall Source
07:30 – 2. Find Motivator
08:30 – 3. Take Action
03:48 – Quote from – Ashton Kutcher
04:15 – Affirmation to Help You Move Forward

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Are You Stuck in a Mess You Made? So? Start Over!

I’ve messed up in everything from cooking a pot of rice, to nurturing a healthy marriage. What I’m about to say may sound calloused, but there’s no shame in letting go of the past, when you tried but really messed up.

Start over with a fresh pot of rice, there’s no use in torturing your taste buds. Start over in your relationships, once you know you’ve given it your all and you realize that parting ways in love may be the healthiest solution for all involved.

In this Video:

00:23 – I Failed to Make the Connection
00:43 – Does The Past Have This Effect On Your Life?
01:03 – Starting Over Is Not a Sign of Weakness
01:15 – It’s No Fun Hitting Bottom: Divorce, Career Failure…
01:43 – Your Story May Be My Story
02:15 – Quote from Guy Finely
03:19 – Affirmation to Help You Move Forward

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